My approach
My approach to domination is first and foremost, Queer. I strongly believe the methods and modes of kink and queerness are complimentary. As both are characterized as “alternative lifestyles”, I find that my Genderqueer identity informs my style of domination by allowing me to function as fluid. Each and every session I offer is catered to the unique desires and qualities of my clients. I offer services to everyone regardless of gender identity, race, religion, ethnicity, ability status, sexual orientation, or class.
My exploration and experience with kink and BDSM has led me to believe in its innate power to serve as a psycho-active experience. Utilizing states of sub-space and submission, I attempt to guide clients toward bodily experiences of their fantasies. I often deploy spiritual approaches to domination and enjoy using properties of meditation and guided breathing to center and ultimately unravel my loyal subjects into a state of submissive bliss.
HOW TO PLAY
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I currently offer standard 1 Hour, 1.5 Hour, 2 Hour and 3 Hour sessions. A 90 minute session is recommended or beginners so we can get to know each other in a dungeon context. Longer sessions available upon rquest and reserved for familiar clients.
Sessions start at $400 for an hour of play. -
Let’s grab a meal and discuss your unraveling before heading to the dungeon. Recommended for first timers and devout subjects.
Starting at $1000 for 2 hours of social time and 1 hour of play. -
Not located in NYC but still desiring my company? That’s no issue with my FMTY session option. Inquire about rates.
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I offer sliding scale sessions for clients and other professionals at the intersection of multiple marginalized identities. Please inquire for details.
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Have you taken one of my knife play classes but want a more direct opportunity to learn? I offer individual (or duo) personalized knife play lessons for the curious.
Lessons are $150 an hour with sliding scale options for other providers.
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Need more of me than a session allows? Total subjection is recommended for those looking to serve me on a day to day basis through a range of tasks. Whether this is serving as a demo-bottom for my classes or running errands around town, this option honors you a consistent role in my court.
Starts at two month arrangements. -
Want to present an offering to the King? I will arrange a public meeting for you to discreetly serve your offering. Recommended for lurkers, first-timers, and loyal subjects.
Cash meets start at a minimum of $200. -
20% of session rate is required for booking
Tributes and rates are for my time and presence only.
Any and all requests for illegal services will be ignored.
Negotiation
Pre-Negotiation is mandatory for all sessions. When we engage in negotiations, we decide the parameters of play. This is the opportunity for us to name our desires, curiosities, and limits. If you already know what those are, great! If not, no worries, I will guide you through the process.
Negotiation is first and foremost, risk mitigation. By delineating our intentions, desires and limits, we aim to reach a consensus that allows us to play confidently and responsibly together.
Risk Aware Consensual Kink, or R.A.C.K. is a safety framework I use to emphasize informed consent and potential risks. To be risk aware is to understand the potential physical or psychological outcomes of the kink we engage in. Consent is given once all participants acknowledge said risks and willfully decide to proceed with the play.
For all first-time bookings, a mandatory phone call will be scheduled for negotiation. For returning clients, negotiation can be adjusted to our specific dynamic and agreement.